At Beverly Hills Cuddle Club, we believe the key to true intimacy is authenticity, vulnerability, self awareness, awareness of others, generosity, nurturing and the capacity to be grounded in the reality of shared experience.
The True Meaning of Intimacy Means In-To-Me-See
Intimacy is the act of lending of our heart with another’s, so we can “see into” who they really are, and they can “see into” us. As human beings we were designed to connect. Being intimate engages us, mixing our life with another’s, a mingling of souls, a sharing of hearts.
in·ti·ma·cy noun: intimacy : close familiarity or friendship; closeness. … “the intimacy between a husband and wife”
- closeness, togetherness, affinity, rapport, attachment, familiarity, friendliness, friendship, amity, affection, warmth, confidence; informal chumminess
- an intimate act, especially sexual intercourse sexual relations, (sexual) intercourse, sex, lovemaking; dated carnal knowledge; formal copulation, (sexual) congress; technical coitus “the memory of their intimacy”
a state marked by emotional closeness <the intimacy of old friends>a quality suggesting closeness or warmth <the cafe’s intimacy>something that is very personal or private <They shared little intimacies in their letters.>closeness with God <spiritual intimacy or closeness with a higher power.>
Status, wealth, accomplishments, a high standard of beauty or sex are certainly not required to achieve a deep, relevant, affection and attachment for another known as intimacy.
All too easily, people who seek love, commitment, dating experiences and even marriage become caught up in behaviors and dysfunctional desires that are categorically counter-productive to intimacy.
Our souls crave intimacy”—Erwin Raphael McManus
Sex is a part of intimate expression, but it is not intimacy. Beverly Hills Cuddle Club Bibliophile Club : In his book, Soul Cravings, Erwin Raphael McManus writes: “Sex can be the most intimate and beautiful expression of love, but we are only lying to ourselves when we act as if sex is proof of love. Too many men demand sex as proof of love; too many women have given sex in hopes of love.”
We live in a world of users where we abuse each other to dull the pain of aloneness. We all long for intimacy, and physical contact can appear as intimacy, at least for a moment.
Cuddling is one of the few positive, pure, safe, healthful, ethical and all natural activities conducive to resilient togetherness and forever love. Discover healthy connection and the inviting warmth of true intimacy by connecting and cuddling with Cuddle Buddies. Join Beverly Hills Cuddle Club to upgrade your intimacy extra-curriculars.
Beverly Hills Cuddle Club’s online dating and social events deliver exclusive opportunities for cuddlelicious moments of togetherness. Our social cuddling experiences clarify purpose of connectivity and empower our coveted Cuddle Buddy members to feel desired, present and inspired about intimacy.